Stuff

We have been cleaning my Mom's house to get it ready for my nephew and his wife to move in. This really sucks. Too much stuff. It is too sad to deal with. You either blank out and not feel or you cry all of the time. Everything reminds me of when we lived together, the places we went, and all of things we did. It makes me want to run away but of course I don't.

Death Sucks

I guess I just have to say this outloud somewhere. LIFE SUCKS. I don't really want to die or anything and I guess that life isn't really what sucks but DEATH SUCKS would be the correct term. I just hate it. I don't really hate much of anything but I can really say that I hate cancer. I am a 20 year cancer survivor but yet my Momma couldn't beat it. cancer sucks. I lost one of my dearest friends to cancer just a few months ago and now I have lost my Momma to cancer too. I am sure that someday it will get me too but I am going to fight it every step of the way.

My Momma

My Momma has been my best friend for many years now but I can remember a time when I would not even speak to her. I so regret those days and I hope she knew how much I regretted them. I know she knew how much I loved her because I made sure to tell her all of the time. I also always tried to do things for her so would know how I felt. She was the best mother any child could hope for. Sometime I just don't know how I am suppose to continue on without her but I tell myself that she would be disappointed in me thinking like that. She did her best to raise me and my brother and sister to be strong and self reliant people but I think she knew that I was always a little on the dependent side. I just miss her so darn much. I gusess the best advice I can give to anyone is to cherish every minute you have with someone because your never ready for them to leave.